Lately, I read Mitchelle Hammond McKinney’s book titled “Secrets
of An Irresistible Woman” and sincerely speaking I learnt a Lot. I’m so much in
love with that particular book that I’m so willing to lend it out to my female
friends.
I decided to take
decisions that’d favor me. I made myself believe I’m worth more than what I or
any other person think I am ‘cos I see myself in theLeague of Successful Virtuous
women irrespective of however way i've been weighed down.
I have this habit of not just reading, but taking note of
points while reading. So here, I got 38 points (plus my own views below each
points) of who the Principle woman is (culled from Mitchelle’s Secrets of An
Irresistible Woman). Don't be confused, a Principles woman is also a Virtuous Woman.
To all my single sisters reading this, apply and practice the
points below and you’d definitely be hooked up soon (and please get a copy of the
book as a Christmas present for yourself, there are great contents in there).
I might as well drop interesting chapters from the book as the Spirit leads(LOL).
Characteristics Of A Principles Woman
1.
1 A Principles Woman have a learned knowledge of
who she is and how she should be treated, she also has an understanding.
Its as simple as this "You’re what you think”,
if you see yourself as a Queen or Winner, you’d keep dwelling in that line and
if reverse is the case, so be it. So sisters, just as my ClassRep would always
say“THINK BIG” .
2 A
Principles Woman knows what time it Is and she understands EXACTLY what she
deserves. I capitalized the word “exactly”
;cos you have to be sure and accurate of what you want. You don’t just
want any job or guy that comes by. You know exactly what you want. You’re not
in to manage anything that comes your way ‘cos you know within you that its not
EXACTLY what YOU want.
3 A Principles Woman
knows who she is in the eyes of God and understands her worth. She is firmly
committed to not living beneath her privilege.
4 A Principles Woman position isn’t something she badly
proclaims but everything about her actions and the way she carries herself says
it.
5 A Principles Woman knows that she is a valuable jewel and
that the right discerning eye will see her worth and act accordingly.
Even the bible attested to that in (proverbs31:10-31). You don’t have to stress yourself out over irrelevant
beings who don’t know your worth, you’d only end up wasting your time. Ease your
nerves off it and you’d be surprised on how swift things would turn out.
6 A Principles Woman is not only a woman of unsurpassable
character, she’s “got it going on” in every way. Her head is together, her
heart is together, her spirit is together and she has developed and is actively
using her gifts.
She is a person who draws others to her because she has
something that everyone wants- she has a certain “joie de vivre” a joy of life
that comes from being comfortable with who she is.
7 A Principles Woman knows the promises of God concerning
her and keeps them close to her heart. She won’t settle for less than God’s
best for herself.
8 A Principles Woman is a Well-kept Lady. She keeps herself
reserved for those things that are deserving of her ambition.
9 A Principles woman soars above negativity and other people’s
trivial opinions. She kniws where she’s going and what she wants, and doesn’t
land until she sees her destination and gets clearance from God.
In one sentence “Keep Ranting!No negative Opinion would hit
A Principles woman.”.
10. A Principles Woman is quite comfortable flying solo, she
knows that she’s never really alone. She only wants a rightly qualified
co-pilot to fill the seat beside her. We
know what we want.
11 A Principles Woman is a Lady at all times.
12. A Principles Woman is downright gorgeous.
13 Principles Women know what real love looks like and they
settle for nothing less.
14 Principles Women know there is no such thing as “falling
in love”. Love is higher than us.
15 Principles Women do not insist on hanging on to Love that
fits all wrong.
16 All Principles Women knows they have a “God Ordained
Purpose”.
17 Principles Women get busy about the business of their God
ordained purpose and are happy people.
18 Principles Women know that a full life is a thing of rare
beauty, so treasure every moment of it. You Only
Live Once so Live Right and
enjoy life to its fullest.
19 A Principles Woman is always too busy minding her own
business. Your life should be full of activity interest apart from MEN!!! Work
to make to make the money to be respected by MEN!.
20 Principles Women knows it profits them to do things by
God’s design.
21 Principles Women don’t have that kind of time or emotional
energy to waste on A MAN. The BIBLE supports that in Proverbs 4 v 23. So never
you HOPE on any guys who doesn’t even think about you for a second. Save that
emotions for the right dude.
22 Principles Women cannot afford to make the costly mistake
of a blind purchase.
23 Principles Women know how to balance heavenly discernment
with good, practical, down to earth sense.
24 Principles Women have grown to understand that there is
only one who can be trusted to hold our hearts.
25 A Principles Woman’s presence in the life of a man
becomes pivotal in the course of his circumstances.
26 When a Principles Woman is in Love, suddenly she becomes attractive
to everyone around her.
27 A Principles Woman knows that if a Husband is what she
wants, she needs to keep the way clear for his entrance. She would never
friendzone or brozone ‘em the guys. She’d pave way and watch out for the
qualified candidate that’s got the right broom to sweep her feet off the
ground.
28 A Principles Woman was created to be a help who would
meet a SPECIFIC MAN’S need . Keyword => SPECIFIC MAN.
29 A Principles Woman understands the importance of looking
out for the wellbeing that concerns her husband.
30 A Principles Wife watches her husband’s back. She
uncovers the work of the enemy in her life and covers him in prayer.
31 A good wife knows how to quietly diffuse the mistakes of
her husband without making it painful and embarrassing.
32 She ministers Peace, focus and sound reasoning to her
husband. She keeps him ever mindful of the call of God upon his life,
especially in the face of all his struggles.
33 A Principles Woman comforts, encourages and does her man
only good as long as there’s life within him.
34 A Principles Woman is also responsible for her husband’s
good reputation.
35 A Principles Wife is trustworthy, industrious,
hardworking, energetic, frugal, wise and compassionate.
36Principles Women do not lower their standards and settle
for living arrangement that are beneath their station in life.
37 Principles Women do not conduct themselves like the women
Timothy spoke about in 2Timothy3 where he states that ‘silly women laden with
sins, led away from diverse lust, ever learning and will never be able to come
to the knowledge of the truth” would be led away by those who love the pleasure
rather than God.
Above All, Principles Women do the right thing at the right
time.
Anwer this question within you, Are you a Principles Woman/Lady or just that random woman/lady?.
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