As women, we love LOVE. We are taught from a very young age that being in love is a defining factor but, unfortunately, many women lose the men they love because they are too in love with love and not in love enough with themselves.
Why you should love yourself first
The quickest way to lose a man’s interest is to make him your number one priority. This is not attractive to men who inherently need, desire and want a challenge. Too many women give up their lives for their man and in doing this they become uninteresting. Keep your lives ladies. You have wonderful lives, friends and passions. Never sacrifice those things for a relationship. The more full you are and the more you love yourself, the more your man will love you too.
Be confident and turn away from him at times
"To keep your man interested you have to be interesting."If you feel your man is becoming distant or not as interested, this is a sign that he is becoming bored in the relationship. If he is bored and you check yourself, you will probably see that you are also bored, so all it takes is a little turning away from him, be a little aloof and he will come looking for you. Remember, men are like cats, if you ignore them, they will come and purr at your feet but if you constantly give them attention, they will go away into a solitary place.
Know when to stop talking
Don’t chase him
The bottom line
A little life message: Love yourself first, love him next and you will have great success.