I’m gon start with this question ”What motivates you? Or Who
motivates you?”. That question might seem deep or the other way round but
really that’s not the business here.
From my 1st year in the University of Lagos till
this moment, I’ve met ladies, both the good, bad and ugly. I’ve even seen the
dumb ones, bitches and intelligent babes. You see miss A with an iPhone 4s and
that greedy you would try all means to own an iPad by force by fire.
Beauty fades. Too much of Sex would make you age fast. For how
long do you want to keep opening that filthy ass of yours just to get some
chicken change. There's no difference between you and a prostitute if you have sex with a guy just to get some cash or the latest gadget. When would you sit down and ask yourself what you can do with
your life? Sad much some ladies just
feel its sex, he’ll get into me for some minutes and that’s all. It’s not just
about Sex, it’s about what happens in the spiritual realm, it’s a spiritual
bond. *I’m not here to preach though*.
My main concern here is when would you sit down, talk to
yourself and screw out that confidence in you to do something beneficial in
your life. Most babes feel it’s their time, they’re in vogue, they can have
this cool fling with any guy that comes. Fine!! Go ahead *ain’t hating on you* I
only feel sad for that time you’re wasting.
Linda Ikeji and other successful ladies are great ladies
that seems to motivate me. Not married and still a success story. They aren’t men,
they are beings like us. They are living cool now because they hustled at the
right time. When would you sit down and think of that fame you’d screw out of your name. would it be a positive one or negative one?. Even if they get married tomorrow, they would
still be referred to with their maiden name by the public.
Make Plans. Better still jot them, list all you want,
tuck it in your bible, pray on it daily after devotion, always remind yourself
of all you want or intend to be. God isn’t asleep. My blue print this year
just turns out real in a funny way. Trying
times would come, never let it weigh you down, instead keep reminding yourself “you’re destined for greatness, this is just
a storm, everything would be fine soon. I’ll be a success story”
Do anything that comes to your mind if it seems sensible. You
don’t need people’s view. I remember asking some people for their views when I was
about to start blogging. Some convinced me
not to but I still stucked to Pastor Lala’s "JUST DO IT".
If your ex or anyone
inspires you to write an article, write it, you might end up writing a book –
DEB. Don’t get moved by anyone telling you ‘you just wrote that book ‘cos you’re
in pains or cos he jilted you’. The emotional pain that led to the write-up
might lead to a positive fame. My blog is no where yet but some comments about
my post is enough to tinini Tanana (tickle) my heart (i don't let it get into my head 'cos i know i still have a long way to go).
Move with positive-minded people. Those who believe in you. Those
who won’t pick on your flaws but rather build up that confidence in you. Also believe
in yourself, think big!. Say positive things to yourself. “I wasn’t born a
failure, I can do it, I will make it”.
My business is about we (Ladies). What runs through our
thoughts, are we’re so concerned about the future? Do we have an insight on where we’d be in the
next 5 years? Those who knows me know
I plan, I don’t just plan. I say mine alongside because Pastor Lala
motivated me through the 1st service in SAF (Sovereign Army
Fellowship) this year, she said ‘Just DO IT, and also keep Saying it’. Forget about
that hater who’s yimu’ing at or behind you, you’ll definitely recognize them
with their bent nose.
I remembered this
close hajia friend of mine who scolds me to stop being so full of myself but
backing every wish or plan of God with Insha Allah which means by the grace of
God. Let GOD be your back up.
Yea! And this reminds me of what Dad always tell I and my
kid sis, "its not about WHAT you know (your skills, ideas, whatever),
its about WHO you know (GOD)". The more you get closer to him, the more things
work out fine with ease for you.
That nigga’s money shouldn’t
be our concern, our business should be how we’d make it. How we’d touch lives . How we’d be a success story. I believe we can.
Happy new month Friends. Yea! its August, the 8th month. We're done with the month of perfection(July). and YES! there's still time for us to work on that blue print and make it turn out real before this year runs out.
'Lord I must be successful, i need a car soon' was what went through my thoughts in this bus.
