I've be wanting to pen down my thoughts on the Fear of being single for a while now, I just couldn't find the right time, right mood and right frame of mind. Until today...Until This very Minute... Wondering what triggered the thoughts... And then I realized am actually living my fears right now..
And I think majority of young women today are facing Anuptaphobia which is the Fear of staying single.
It's like Jennifer Lopez sang " What if I never find and I'm left behind?
Should I keep hoping for love?
What if I'm still the same?
Status doesn't change?
Gotta keep hoping for love?
Which leaves us with the ultimate question "what is love"?
We single ladies are just too afraid of this dreadful status... We want to experience love so bad... it drives us into the arms of the wrong men... it ruins our chances of getting into a happy romantic relationship... The fear of not wanting to end up alone drives us into desperation which ultimately grows into loneliness and depression.
You wake up to a good morning only for you to see pictures of that friend who got engaged recently... Or a friend who just had her traditional marriage... and you go back to bed... with that awful feeling that the universe is against you...and it's not like your beefing those friends or anything... But your left wondering the good guys are? Should you go out more? where exactly are this eligible bachelors?
That's not all, this is just a tip of the ice berg, please, check maureen's blog to read the full writeup. She's a great writer and blogger