From the title on my earlier
post (the thing about men),
I'm sure y'all should know we're talking about(focused on) men,men,men!!!
Everything that needs to be known about the "M" factor.
There are key things we must
examine about the whole man. Men are three-dimensional beings. They are living
entities(just like us) that have a spirit that resides in a body. Also, there are 3 levels in them that we must
appeal to - Physical, Emotional and Spiritual(P.E.S). Beyond this, they have 5
senses that involve how they respond - to sight, sound, smell, taste and touch.
To keep that man's interest,
you must involve all levels(P.E.S) of his being as well as all of his senses.
Truth is one thing that
catches a guy's attention is your physical realm, men view us quite
differently. The lips, legs, eyes(its a varied list depending on who's looking
your way). Now we're on to the 101 things that keeps a man.
1) Eyes: the power of the eyes (in terms of body
language) can do wonders. Let's just rewind to moments when our moms(particularly
yoruba moms) give their kids that stern look, that look alone passes a message
across to us even without the use of verbal language. Now back to the matter, the
gospel truth is God created women to attract men#fact#. The effect a woman's
eye can have on a man is either to arrest him, captivate him, invite or deter
his approach. No wonder the Tuface said "when I look into your eyes I see
the fire in there". Nigga saw the fire of love. LOL.
As for me, my eyes are soft and gentle like
that of a dove that beckons my man to come closer, iono the message your eyes
passes across, are they filled with the pains of your past relationship?
Are
they filled with doubts? Are they filled with mistrust? Check those eyes out.
2) Lips: lips come in all
sizes and shapes(thin, wide, voluptuous, pouty, streamlined et al). You can
tell if someone is angry by either looking into their eyes or observing the set
of their lips. The way it looks stiff or turned downward is one way to know
this person is in a bad mood. Irrespective of the brand of lipstick you've used ranging from MAC, Tara, MarkKay et al, that colour can't conceal the way you feel.
Are your lips soft, inviting
pleasant conversation or do they threaten a rebuke?
3) A welcoming smile: it'd be
so cool if we learn to deal with those grim lips that hides the beautiful inner
you. Deal with whatever shii that's inside you and set the outside free. A
smile can do more than words, who knows if that smile from you could make that
niggas head spin without control. Fact is what makes a woman approachable is her
smile, an expressionless look (from you) would scare them away.
If you're always dressed up,
looking good, and still wondering why the world is passing you by? My dear, get
happy and smile.
4) Beautiful teeth:
personally, I love gap tooth, to me they seem charming (but that's not the key
thing). Gleaming white teeth are desirable, health is not enough. What does it
profit you to have a fabulous teeth but no one sees them? Bad teeth can be a
deal breaker, infact, terrible breath is just enough to scare the guy away.
5) Complexion: we come in
many shades that are appealing to various men. Fair, dark, ruddy, pale
(whatever), do not despise what someone else might celebrate. If you're dark,
please maintain that colour, you can't fit into the fair girls clique, so enjoy
that complexion of yours. Babes that tone their skin color and end up with dark
knuckles(please stopiiiiiiiit). Appreciate your complexion.
6) Beautiful skin: Personally,
I've tried out two practicals(via google) with my skin (mostly when I know I
won't be outta the house for a week because of the skin reaction). I've used
honey and lemon and I realized those natural things(without the mixture of
chemicals) makes your skin turn out great. I keep testifying to the wonders of
lemon, that's more or less a skin toner, clears off blemishes, spots. You don't
wanna know the wonders of Lemon.
Now it doesn't matter what
shade your color is. Care for it tenderly and allow its finer properties to
shine through. You never know who's looking at you. Save the huge amount you
waste on mixing creams and try out the natural skin care(honey, lemon, shea
butter, cucumber e.t.c).
7) Hair: men love it. They
always wanna touch it.(big ups to my man). What's more
important here is keeping an healthy hair, learn to wear your hair well.
8) Hands: men pay attention
to little things. They could be fondling your hands but trust me, their eyes
are on it. Strong, sensitive hands are appealing in their books. Learn to keep
your nails neat. This speaks of the little time and attention you pay to
yourself. Just recently, I met a friend, while chatting with him, he noticed my nails if I used henna(lali) on it,
of which he said he likes it. Funny enough, the henna's fading away, those
little things we ignore are what the dudes appreciate, we should learn to take
care of it.
9) Arms: learn to release
your arms for hugs or to embrace others(not strangers). If you're in a
relationship, reach out to your man, you really don't know the wonders of hugs.
Not untill you realize the wonders, you'd learn to always doll out hugs to the
man.
10) Neck: It can reflect
defiance, submission, pride or humility. The neck can say a lot. Its tenderness
is particularly tender to a man.
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